There are three kinds of attachments, each requiring their own new perspective in order to be able to detach for them.
1. Temporal possessions. Remember, you can have anything you want, as long as you don’t need it! This attachment also indicates the absence of appreciation or even recognition of the hand of the divine in your life already; Lack of appreciation!
2. Prestige/Reputation/Outcome (intangible benefits). Craving for significance always comes from the ego! Does the Divine rely upon exterior validation to feel good?
3. “Special Relationships”: Reference A Course In Miracles, and the companion reference book by Marianne Williamson, A Return To Love. There is no such thing as a special relationship! When you understand that we are all connected, you realize that everyone you meet is your family, and you can have that bond with anyone, even if they are not related! LOVE makes us related! No One is special, because we all special! Absence of reverence.
The question to ask yourself to help you determine why you are attaching meaning to this thing or person is the same for each category; “Why do I think I am “less than” if I don’t have this thing/person?” This question helps us uncover the limiting belief that supports this attachment.
Another strategy to assist you in letting go of being attached to whatever, is to trivialize it.
Please understand that I am not condoning acts of force, control or manipulation with this, but trivializing things which have previously tied you up in knots….helps you release it and let it go!
For example; “Well, so what my uncle molested me when I was 10. It’s only sex! Everybody’s having it!” Gives relief so you can detach for it, and opens your spirit up to a new perspective.
Here is a special clearing technique to delete the negative energy inside you, especially regarding the third category, relationships:
The Tibetan Vitale Clearing Method that Joe Vitale teaches in his Abundance Paradigm program.
Have you heard of it?
It is amazing!!
A bit “weird” sounding at first, but very effective!
Here’s how it works:
Envision the person with whom you are having a problem, OR the energy of the feeling you are having….
Then, imagine you ask “it” or “them” what they NEED. Allow the vision to tell you the answer. Then, see yourself FEEDING THEM OR IT OF YOUR ESSENCE, and this will look like you are feeding it your body! Really!
Watch it or them be nourished as they partake of your essence. Keep watching it or them until they seem satiated by the feeding. When I do this, I usually scoop into my heart area, and offer them my heart! They “eat” it! (I told you it seemed weird!)
Then…They feel fine, smile at me…..and that energy on that issue is gone inside me!
Usually, when something comes up inside us that causes us to react, it is something about which we have been hiding from, so we can “protect ourself” from what we think will hurt us….but in fact, we need the lesson to get further on! Does this make sense for you??
Letting go of attachments allows you to receive inspiration. Attachments prevent you from receiving inspiration because you have already decided upon the thing to which you are attached, so how can the divine bring any other ideas to you? When you are open to additional methods, thoughts, processes, and beliefs, you are untying the hands of god to bring “it” to you through any number of ways!
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